
Dress for the job you want. I want to be an Art Nouveau faerie princess.
Welcome to part five of my ongoing series about becoming a professional belly dancer. My standard disclaimer is that I am not promoting myself as an expert here, this is more of a “learn alongside me” than a definite how-to and is largely based on my opinions and my own personal experience. Your mileage may vary, etc etc.
A big part of being considered a professional in any career is dressing the part. You wouldn’t expect a CEO to show up to a meeting in jean shorts and you’d be surprised if your surgeon wore an evening gown. Being a belly dancer is no different. There are certain expectations on how we dress. ATS has its set of costuming, restaurant patrons expect a sparkly beaded costume, and folkloric (or fauxloric) dances have their own special ethnic dress. Part of being seen as a pro is knowing how to dress according to the needs of the style of dance and the venue, and being able to meet those expectations — or knowing when and how you can get away with breaking the rules.
So this post isn’t going to be about the importance of spending hundreds or thousands of dollars on professional-level costuming. I mean, you’ll want to do that once you’re ready to start taking paid gigs, but there’s no need to invest in a custom-made stage-worthy costume while you’re still doing semi-annual student showcases. Instead, this is about dressing like you give a damn.
How to Dress Like a Professional (while you’re still an amateur):
1. Adhere to whatever costuming guidelines your teacher or troupe director gives you. That means when you’re told to wear black pants, you don’t show up in black and white striped pants, you show up in black.
2. Buy the nicest version you can afford. When it comes to basic costuming items, your options usually run the range from dirt cheap to top-of-the-line custom made. Now, early on in your dance journey you probably won’t be able to afford custom-made costumes, and honestly, early on you’re going to be wearing a lot of simple stuff that doesn’t need to be really tailored, so you’ll generally be fine buying off the rack (although I do know that people who are extra tiny or extra curvy often have to order custom or modify things a lot, and you have my sympathy). But just because you don’t need couture doesn’t mean that you should get the Made in China eBay cheapies. Unless you’re buying for a themed performance for the holidays or something, you will probably wear your student and amateur level costumes over and over again, especially certain staple items like skirts, pantaloons, choli tops, belts and tribal bras… wait, that’s basically everything. If you buy good quality at the start, and take good care of things, some of your baby dancer costuming may even carry over into your professional level gigs, layered under fancier accessories.
3. And that brings me to my next point. Take good care of your costuming! Keep it clean, make repairs as needed, store it nicely. If a piece of costuming doesn’t come with care instructions, Google it or ask a more experienced dancer. Believe me, most of us have learned the hard way how not to wash a 25 yard skirt! The benefit of caring for your pieces is that not only will you look better on stage and get more use out of them, but when you’re done with them, you should be able to pass them on to another dancer instead of having to throw them away.
4. Only wear what fits you. I think we all have at least one thing in our dance closet that doesn’t really fit right, but we love it so we refuse to get rid of it, and sometimes we insist on wearing it. Maybe we wear it a lot, because it’s the only *whatever* we have and we don’t want to spend the money to buy a new one. I’m here to tell you that you need to either modify or get rid of everything that doesn’t fit you, especially bras. Ill-fitting bras are unflattering, and you’re at a higher likelihood of a costume malfunction.
5. Do your makeup! I know a lot of people are resistant to makeup, but it is incredibly important. It’s not about “covering your flaws” or embracing some media-driven idea of beauty. It’s about enhancing and highlighting your features so the people in the back row can actually read your expression. How much makeup you need to wear depends on the size of the venue and the lighting, but any time you’re wearing a costume, you should also be wearing makeup.
6. Wear a coverup when you’re not on stage. It’s polite, it protects your costume, it’s the smart thing to do. If I was the President of Bellydanceland, I’d make it the law. Wear a coverup. Even at an outdoor gig when it’s 110 degrees. Wear a coverup. Wear. A. Cover. Up.
Most of these tips apply to your props and classwear, too. Buy nice things, take good care of them, make sure the pants you wear to class aren’t so loose you shimmy out of them (been there, done that). That said, don’t feel like you have to buy expensive Melodias or other fancy things to wear to class. If you like to, and can afford it, but by all means do… But plenty of professionals wear less-expensive pants and shirts. Personally, I have a few pieces of fancy classwear, but I save them for workshops. For normal classes in town I wear Target yoga pants and t-shirts from dance festivals.
But why do I suggest all of these things? Because when you take your appearance seriously, it shows that you take the dance seriously. When even at the student level you make sure to dress appropriately, and look the nicest you can, and take good care of your costume, it shows respect for the dance, your teachers, and your fellow dancers. When you wear a nice costume and do your makeup, it shows that you care about giving the audience the best experience you can.
I also suggest paying attention to your costume and makeup early on, because just like dancing itself, it takes time to refine your technique. If you’re not used to wearing makeup, or you usually go for a subtle look, it takes practice to get comfortable with eye liner and contouring. As a baby dancer I had to allow myself 2 hours to do my face and hair before a show, but now if I have to, I can get it done in 45 minutes (30 if I don’t have to do heavy contouring). The same goes for learning what costuming styles look good on you, how to make or repair your own costumes, how to mix and match to create a layered look, etc etc. If you practice these skills alongside learning movement and musicality, they’ll develop at a similar rate, and by the time you’re ready to be a pro, you’ll be a well-rounded performer.