Adventures with oVertone!

Can I really put pink and orange dye over my henna?

Can I really put pink and orange dye over my henna?

Take a journey with me, back in time to the 90s. You may or may not remember, but it was a magical time when suddenly you could easily buy green nail polish and weird colored hair dye. My parents wouldn’t let me actually dye my hair, but they were fine with temporary experiments, so I had all kinds of hair mascara and colored pomade. I decided that when I turned 18, I would dye my hair blue. Why blue? Well, I wore a lot of blue, and green, and purple, but I didn’t like green and purple together, so blue seemed like the safest bet for coordinating with my wardrobe. I had it all figured out!

Then I learned that my hair was dark enough that I would have to bleach it, and that blue hair dye had a bad habit of quickly fading to a nasty pool water greenish shade. I gave up on my wild dreams of colored hair and stuck with my boring brown hair.

Until I discovered henna.

Glorious, glorious henna.

Glorious, glorious henna.

I’ve been dying my hair with henna since Autumn 2011, and I’ve been pretty happy with it. My hair looks amazing and is super healthy. No bleach required!

But there were some problems… Henna is messy and time-consuming. Any time I needed to touch up my roots, I’d have to set aside the entire afternoon to do it, and count on spending a good 45 minutes cleaning the bathroom afterwards. I’d often end up with a headache from the sheer weight of the henna mud, which I had to leave on my hair for hours. Not to mention how long I had to spend rinsing it out in the shower, and how much water that took, and me living in a desert.

This leads to me leaving my roots un-tended to for months and months and months.

I mean, look at those roots. Geez.

I mean, look at those roots. Geez.

Meanwhile, my awesome pal Liora and her friend Meagan were over here starting a company called oVertone, which makes color-depositing conditioners to help your dye job stay fresh and vibrant. I thought that was pretty cool, but I’d been told that once you hennaed your hair, fantasy color hair-dye was out of the question. You couldn’t bleach the henna out and the dye molecules had nowhere to go, something something something. When I started hennaing my hair I didn’t care, but then I kept seeing all of these fabulous dye jobs on oVertone’s social media accounts and I felt seriously left out. Why couldn’t I have mermaid hair, too?

Then the other day they posted some strand tests of orange dyes and it looked an awful lot like if I put orange dye on my brown roots, it would be pretty close to the color of my henna, without all the hassle of henna. I broached the subject with Liora, and she agreed my hair was probably just light enough for the orange dye. We talked a bit about the interaction between henna and hair dye, and how they’d had customers who were curious whether they could put oVertone over henna.

These thoughts milled around in my head until one day I had a realization… I have basically all the hair in the world and I’m really overdue to trim my ends. Why not put oVertone on the last 6 inches of my hair, that way if it looked bad, I could just cut it off, and Liora and Meagan would have a clear answer for their customers. WE COULD DO SCIENCE TO MY HAIR!

While mermaid colors were still out of the question (teal + henna = blargh), I went over to Liora’s place and we applied Extreme Pink and Vibrant Orange to my ends. Did you know that pink and orange used to be my two least-favorite colors? I’m trying to grow as a person. Anyway, if you want to see what my dyed and curled ends looked like, hop over to the oVertone blog to read Liora’s post.

I was so excited that I couldn’t resist when Liora generously offered to let me take the rest of the Go Deep conditioner home and put it on the rest of my hair. I wanted magical raspberry sunset hair and I was going to make it happen.

So let’s talk about what oVertone is like. Although it’s designed to be used to maintain an existing dye job, there’s enough dye in the Go Deep product that you can use it to color your natural hair, assuming your base color is light enough. Since it doesn’t have alcohol in it like most dyes do, it’s easier on your hair, which is nice for dye-wusses like me. Hair health takes priority over hair color when you have bootie-length locks.

Go Deep comes in a tub and looks kind of like frosting, and smells minty fresh because it’s got mint and rosemary oils in it.

Great, now I want cupcakes.

Great, now I want cupcakes.

The cool thing for me is that the process for applying oVertone Go Deep is the same as applying henna — spread that stuff all over your head! The difference is that because it’s not as thick and heavy, it didn’t slide off all over the bathroom floor, and it didn’t weigh my head down. Plus I only had to leave it on for 15 minutes, not 2 hours. I thought I’d spend that time reading, but actually, by the time I finished wiping up the mess I had made, it was time to hop in the shower and rinse off.

And yes, it did make a mess. I have a ton of hair, so there’s basically no way to cover all of it with dye without getting it everywhere. I managed to restrict the carnage to my sink, a couple of random splats on the counter, and my own body. But fear not! I just scrubbed myself really well and the color came right off. I do recommend having an exfoliating cleaner on hand just in case, though.

I really wanted a variegated raspberry and orange look, so I sectioned my hair into six pieces and alternated which color I applied, and then wrapped them all together on top of my head so they’d blend. On my scalp, I did some places orange and some places pink, which resulted in a more patchy look, so I’m going to go back in and apply more color and blend it together to smooth it out.

How fabulous is this?

How fabulous is this?

The end result is that my previously natural-looking red hair now has this rich berry hue with flashes of coppery orange. I like it a lot! But best of all, because Go Deep is a deep conditioner, my hair also feels amazing! It’s very soft and still looks and feels really healthy. It took longer to rinse out than a normal shampoo and conditioner, obviously, but not nearly as long as henna does, and it didn’t leave mud all over my shower.

I do have a couple of concerns about continuing to use oVertone. One is that it doesn’t seem to cover my greys as well as henna does. I’m going to make doubly sure to hit my tiny grey patch with some extra color when I redo my roots, because you can definitely see my grey roots. If I can get them to be a pastel pink or orange, that’s fine, but I don’t want actual white showing at my roots, so if that becomes an issue I may have to keep using henna.

The other issue is cost. Henna isn’t cheap, but I didn’t have to apply it often. Because oVertone is semi-permanent, I’ll need to invest in the Daily Conditioner to keep my color bright, and then re-apply Go Deep every week or so. For the average person this is not going to add up to a huge expense, but did I mention that I have ALL THE HAIR? I used close to half of each tub to dye my hair, and while I can probably use less in the future (since I’ll just be looking to re-up my baseline dye job), I’m worried it could get expensive fast. It’s an expense I can currently handle, but if things change in my budget, I may have to let my hair color go, or experiment with seeing how stingy I can be with product while still maintaining my color.

Over all though, I am really happy and really excited about my new hair color! It really looks good with my complexion, since it’s still in the same red-orange family as my henna, it’s just gone a couple of steps beyond colors normally found in nature. It definitely fits well with the otherworldly, faerie persona that I like to bring to the stage, while not being out of line with any vintage-inspired costuming I might want to wear.

Belly Dance Swap Meet!

Sophweea the salesdoll.

Sophweea the salesdoll.

I spent Saturday up in Mesa for Yasmina’s last-ever annual swap meet. This is a great event that I’ve been attending for the past few years. It’s a great place to unload your unwanted costume pieces, pick up some new costuming, take workshops, and hang out with your dance friends. This year also had live drumming and festival dancing, so it was extra fun!

I shared a booth with my bestie Jen, and we cleaned out our closets. I didn’t sell as much as I wanted to, but I did get rid of a pesky 25 yard skirt that was taking up a lot of space in my closet, and a bunch of $5 things too, so I’d call it a win. Plus spending all day with my best friend is always good, and the fact that two of my troupemates and a ton of my other friends were there made it even better.

After getting settled in and making some sales, I took “Wait for iiiiiiiiiit” with Epheli Raphae. I really like Epheli and she has a great sense of musicality, so I knew that this would be a good workshop and she did not disappoint! I really enjoyed how she made use of her background as an English major to approach it from more of a literary/grammatical point of view (thinking in terms of sentences and punctuation). Since I have no musical background but live for reading and writing, this really jived with my way of thinking. Plus her musical choices were great. For the most part, she also let people improv within their own dance vocabulary, so it was very accessible for dancers of all styles and levels, as long as they were comfortable with improvisation. I’d definitely recommend it if any of my readers get a chance to take this workshop in the future.

I was supposed to take a workshop with my tribal mommas Anaya Tribal too, but uhm, I sort of got caught up talking with people and completely lost track of time!

Fire & Gold Belly Dance took advantage of the opportunity for some festival dancing, and showed off some of the improv skills we’ve been developing and our latest choreography. Here’s a rare picture of us in the sunshine…

Photo by Yasmina Parker.

Photo by Yasmina Parker.

I’m pleased to say that we all did our part to stimulate the dance economy, too!

Unfortunately, Yasmina will not be running this event anymore, but I have seen a lot of people talking about a desire to continue it, so hopefully someone new will take up the reins and this continue to be a wonderful annual tradition.

Improv Roulette Recap!

Happy participants! Thank you Jess Walker for taking the picture.

Happy participants! Thank you Jess Walker for taking the picture.

My first Improv Roulette was yesterday, and since I know a lot of people wanted to make it and couldn’t due to scheduling conflicts or health concerns, I figured I should let everyone know how it went!

Participants were me, my “little” brother Josiah, and Mahin, who came all the way down from Phoenix to check out IR! So we had two different styles of belly dance, and a fire spinner with a rather martial style. How did that work out?

It worked out GREAT! Because there were only three of us, we each took two turns during the solo round. Then once we were all comfortable with the concept, duets started. My favorite was definitely when Mahin convinced my brother he should try her Saiidi canes, and they had a tense duet to “Living Dead Girl” where she wielded a veil like a weapon while he stalked cautiously around her, wielding twin canes. Awesome! I wish I had thought to ask their permission for pictures because there were some really cool moments.

We also spent a lot of time chatting, discussing performance ideas and how to promote events, and how everyone who wasn’t there would totally kick themselves when they heard how much fun we had.

Josiah and Mahin were really two of the best possible people who could have come to my first event, because they were both totally game. They enjoyed picking random word prompts and came up with fun interpretations. They never asked to skip a weird song. They tried out unfamiliar props instead of sticking with what they’d brought along. And they remembered to bring non-perishable items for the food bank!

So if after reading this, you think Improv Roulette sounds like a blast, you should either save the date to attend my next one on February 22nd, or you should check out the Improv Roulette Facebook page to see if there’s a chapter near you. Also keep an eye out for an IR event in Phoenix sometime next year, co-hosted by Mahin and I!

The Big LVBDI14 Recap Post!

Stabby stab stab!

Stabby stab stab!

I am home from LVBDI! That’s a bigger deal than you might realize, because I was driving home yesterday, dodging the flood-bringing rainstorms that hit NV and AZ. I’m not sure about the numbers for Nevada, but Phoenix and Tucson both had some record-breaking rainfalls from what I heard. Luckily I managed to time my drive just right to avoid the worst of it but I almost got stranded in Vegas.

Anyway, the LVBDI was a lot of fun. I didn’t spend as much time at the festival as I did last year, because I was also in Vegas for the wedding of two sweet friends, but that was also fun! I’m really glad that I was able to attend both events, and really, what could be better for ones mood than an inspiring weekend of dance AND attending a romantic, funny, awesome wedding?

On Friday I arrived late enough that I completely missed the chance to check out the vending and the festival stage, but I did get to attend the Friday night pro show. I think the pro shows are one of the best things about LVBDI, because they’re a really great mix of talent in a nice theater with great seating, good lighting and good sound quality. Plus you get the fun of voting in the So You Think You Can Belly Dance competition! I was really inspired by Friday’s show.

Saturday I got up nice and early so I could get a little shopping and visiting in before my workshop! One of my favorite things about attending a dance festival is getting to catch up with and hug all my vendor buddies who I only get to see once or twice a year. Same for fellow performers and students. There are so many people that I know from Facebook and Twitter that I get to hang out with in person at festivals. It’s the best! So anyway, after a bit of socializing I got my sword and it was time to study with Silvia Salamanca!

Silvia’s workshop was a lot of fun. I learned a lot of good pointers (ha ha!) for handling and dancing with my sword, and some moves that work well with swords, and some floorwork turns. Although the carpet sucked for some things, one nice thing about a carpeted workshop is you can drop your sword and not really worry as much about damaging it. And I did drop my sword a couple of times! Whenever somebody drops their sword in her workshop Silvia likes for people to yell OPA! which makes it more fun. After all, it’s good to drop your sword in a workshop because it helps you learn the limits of what you can do before your sword falls off, and it helps you learn that if your sword does drop, it’s not the end of the world.

I definitely recommend studying with Silvia if you get the chance. I adore her Spanish accent and I love how open she is about the fact that maybe she’ll say something silly, and maybe you won’t understand her, and it’s OK to raise your hand and ask her to repeat herself. Her attitude is that you’re paying for the workshop, of course you should LEARN while you’re there, so never hesitate to ask for clarification, whether it’s because you couldn’t understand her words or you just need something broken down a bit more.

During the workshop, the fire alarm went off, which from what I’ve heard seems to happen a lot at LVBDI. I don’t know if they have really sensitive alarms or a lot of pranksters around, but it was pretty annoying. Because the alarm was so loud we couldn’t really talk or hear music, Silvia gave us extra time at the end, which was only possible because her workshop was right before the lunch break so we didn’t have to clear out to make room for the next teacher. This was really the only event-related snag I came across the entire weekend.

After that I got ready for my performance. I gave myself plenty of time to do my makeup, and it was nice to not feel rushed. I also appreciated the fact that my bathroom at the Flamingo had a huuuuuge counter with room for my makeup. I did not appreciate the awful florescent lighting in the bathroom. Who does that? Luckily I’ve been doing my makeup long enough that I have a good feel for how much product I need to apply, so the bad lighting didn’t throw me off.

I think I turned out OK.

I think I turned out OK.

Just like last year, I was really pleased with how nice and professional everyone involved in the performance experience was. From checking in to perform to getting my video and photos, I didn’t have a single problem. My fellow dancers backstage were sweet and encouraging, too. This event just really seems to attract the best people.

I’ll share my feelings about my performance itself tomorrow, since I have a lot to say and I don’t want this post to be a novel!

Saturday night I got to grab a bite with Mahin from the Daily Bellydance Quickies. It’s always fun to hang out with her and we talked about our experience at the event so far, general dance stuff, and makeup among other things. Due to a mess-up on my part we ended up a bit late to the Saturday night show so we sadly missed a couple of the acts, but what we did see was AMAZING! Lots of great talent on stage again. And we got to vote for the winner of the contest. The dancer that I voted for won, hooray! I think I was even more inspired by Saturday’s show than Friday’s.

Sunday morning was my friends’ wedding which was so sweet! They managed to bring in a lot of disparate elements from their life and somehow make them into a cohesive whole for their ceremony, then we adjourned to the buffet for the reception, where I ate way too much food and got to know some of the bride’s friends who I was sitting with.

After that I had to get back over to the festival for my other workshop, which was Delving into the Dark with Belladonna. I wasn’t quite sure what to expect from it, and I am still not sure how I feel about it? Because it was the last slot on Sunday, she decided to offer a talky workshop, which was nice. I like getting to sit around and learn and talk. And I liked some of the things she had to say about channeling our “darker” emotions or experiences, either by using them directly for a dance or drawing on their opposite. I wasn’t as into the guided meditation because that’s not my thing. However, what I really appreciated was that she was open and honest about the fact that some of what she said and suggested might not be for everyone and if you didn’t like it, that was OK. So I decided to be open in turn and consider everything she said and examine if I thought it would work for me, rather than discarding things outright.

Honestly, I think the workshop would have worked better if it was at least 2 hours long instead of 1.5. That would have given us more time to apply some of the concepts she discussed to movement. We did one movement exercise but then got distracted by discussing another concept and didn’t get to move anymore. Now granted, I was tired, and sore from all those drops and floorwork in Silvia’s class, and too full of buffet food, so I am not saying I disliked the chance to sit and talk! I just think more time was needed for the workshop.

Sunday night I got to stay for the It’s a Wrap Cocktail party/hafla, which was a nice chance to munch some snacks, have a drink, chat with friends, and see some more dance. I really enjoyed how this party was structured, alternating between a few performances and then live music and open dance. The music didn’t drown out the conversation, so if you weren’t dancing, you could keep socializing, and there were plenty of tables and chairs. I got to hang out with my friends Kristen from CA and Pasha from CO, who I just adore.

I’d say my only real regrets about the LVBDI is that I didn’t get into town earlier, take more workshops and spend more time watching the community stage. I spent the 20 minutes before my time slot watching other dancers, and caught a few here and there while wandering the vendors, but I know I missed a ton of great performances.

And my only complaint about the LVBDI is that… I really kind of hate Vegas and the Flamingo can be kind of dumpy. I am not even kidding, on Sunday there was pepperoni on the floor in the hallway of my floor ALL DAY. How gross is that? And the bro dudes and lady bros in the rooms surrounding mine convinced me that if I do return to the LVBDI, I will try to find a quiet place off the strip to stay, where I won’t be awoken at 2am on Friday to people chanting “Do! More! Shots!” in the hallway. Vegas is so not my kind of town, but there’s no denying that the LVBDI is a great event, and easy to get to from AZ. I’ll just have to re-evaluate how I attend it in the future.

This week will be LVBDI-themed, so keep checking back for more posts about my performance and my purchases!

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Hafla-Con is Coming!

Banner by Jared Neufer featuring artwork by DeviantArt member Kosmur and photo by Liora K Photography.

Banner by Jared Neufer featuring artwork by DeviantArt member Kosmur and photo by Liora K Photography.

Hafla-Con is August 2nd and I can’t wait. I’ve been wanting a geek-themed belly dance event in Arizona for a long time. I’d even toyed with the idea of organizing one myself, but I hadn’t had time to look into it yet. I’m super excited that Dirigible Doumbek is hosting one at Plaza Studio up in Tempe and I get to be part of it!

I had a few ideas for my performance, but I settled on a concept that had been floating in my head for years, just waiting for me to have the skills and the right venue to do it. Rather than portraying a specific character or dancing to music from a specific show or movie, I am instead doing a homage to an archetype, the fembot in all her incarnations.

I’ve been having a lot of fun planning this piece. I have a Pinterest board full of inspirational images and makeup ideas. In fact, I need to start working on my makeup. I want something that suggests robot without being too cyborg-y or going as far as Steam Powered Giraffe’s gorgeous metallic face painting.

Of course I am also excited to see the other performances, which will be drawn from a lot of different fandoms and performed by various dancers I know and love. I think it’s going to be a great night of geeky dancer fun. If you’d like to learn more about it, either check out the Event Page on Facebook or Buy Tickets from the Plaza Studio site. It’s only $5 so if you’re going to be in the Tempe area, you have no excuse not to attend.

All-Day Dance Day!

Dancing at Fusion Day. Skirt by Snake Church, Bra/Belt by me, Flowers by Bold Oracle, photo by Yasmina.

Dancing at Fusion Day. Skirt by Snake Church, Bra/Belt by me, Flowers by Bold Oracle, photo by Yasmina.

Saturday was so busy that I apparently needed both Sunday and Monday to recover from it! It was a really good day but I got up at 7:30am and didn’t get back home until almost 1:30am!

After a long but boring drive to Mesa from Tucson, I spent the first part of the day taking workshops at Fusion Day. First was some skirt work with Cari from Anaya Tribal, which was a lot of fun. As I’ve mentioned before, Anaya Tribal were my first teachers, so any time I’m in a workshop with them it’s kind of like coming home. All that ITS stuff that I don’t use anymore comes back to me pretty quickly. The skirt moves they taught were a mix of things I had learned back when I studied regularly with them, and some new combos. There were a few really fun leader switches, too.

After a short break, the learning resumed with a workshop on dancing to live music, with Yasmina and drummers Patrick T. Butcher and Jim Shane. The workshop started out with some general tips on dancing to live music, from the dancer’s perspective and from the musician’s perspective. We learned good ways to communicate and interact with the band during a performance. There was plenty of Q&A and discussion. Then we got up to dance! The drummers demonstrated a few rhythms with Yasmina providing advice on how one might interpret the rhythm on the body. For the last part of class we were divided into small groups and we each did a mini-show where we communicated to the drummers the basic framework of what we wanted ahead of time and then cued changes during our dance. It was a lot of fun and very educational!

There was also a bit of vending so I bought myself this really cool headpiece.

It's got birds AND fish AND stars AND moons AND jingles. How could I resist?

It’s got birds AND fish AND stars AND moons AND jingles. How could I resist?

Then I had a few hours to eat some food and get ready before the show. I felt bad that I didn’t go to the Plaza student recital while I was up there, but that would have left me feeling really rushed to put my face on and/or I would not have had the chance to eat a real meal.

The Fusion Day show featured a really nice variety of dancers in various styles, and more live music. We had a good crowd to dance for and it’s always nice to get to dance on a raised stage. The atmosphere backstage was really nice too, with everyone ooohing and aaahing over each other’s costumes and jewelry. I also enjoyed the chance to see performances by dancers who I know but have rarely seen perform because we’re always at different events.

I went straight from Fusion Day over to downtown Phoenix for the Vraja Productions show. There was a really nice blend of talent on display and I was really proud of how my belly dance friends did, as well as enjoying the performances by the people I didn’t know personally. I also got to see a couple more dance friends who were in the audience, so all in all it was a really good day for catching up with my Phoenix people.

It was really nice to spend all day immersed in dance!

Tribal Fest Wrap-Up

Can't even get over how pretty my wings were in the light.

Can’t even get over how pretty my wings were in the light.

I was doing such a good job of posting from Tribal Fest, but then my bestie Niffer arrived and we were rooming together and I wanted to spend all night chatting instead of blogging from my tiny keyboard. Then I was driving home and wanted to rest instead of typing. But now I am back and well-rested after a night in my own bed with my own kitty curled up against my belly, and I want to gush about what a wonderful time I had! So let’s look at it day-by-day.

Friday: Got to the festival nice and early for “The whole shebang” with Dusty Paik. Have I mentioned that I LOVE Dusty? She’s just made of awesome. Her workshop was about taking a piece of music and developing a whole concept around it, from character to costume to movement. Most of the workshop was spent sitting on the floor listening, writing, and drawing, and then we were given the chance to present our concept to the rest of the class. I decided to be brave and go first, and I got some nice feedback on my piece. Then I got to sit back and watch other students dance and some of them blew my mind! Lots of beautiful concepts and skillful dancing and raw emotion.

After that I had a couple hours to hang out, shop, and watch the show. I was able to see my friend and former troupemateish (she was in Skirt Full of Fire while I was in Fire & Gold, so we danced together in big group numbers) Kamrah dance for the first time since she moved away. She rocked it! Here’s the video if you want to see for yourself. I saw a lot of other really good dancing too and was feeling really inspired, but also intimidated because I was going to be taking the stage on Saturday!

Then it was time to run back to the rental and let Niffer in, because we only had one key! I got her settled in and we made our way back to the festival and I had to immediately pop into my second workshop of the day (and last one of the festival) which was a hair workshop with Brandie Franks of Diva Dreads. There were only a few students so it was really casual and chatty, with Brandie demonstrating hair and answering our questions and doing different styles on everyone. There was a nice range of hair lengths and types present in class, so she was able to address different needs which was not only helpful for the person with that hair, but for any of us who might be going home to help our troupemates whose hair is totally different from our own. I was really impressed that not only did Brandie discuss how to use the dreads she makes, but she also talked a bit about how to make your own, or braid fake hair directly into your own hair, or use yarn falls. She acknowledged that not everyone could afford nice dreads or braids and gave budget-friendly alternatives and was totally cool about it.

Once I was out of my workshop, I did a little more shopping and then we dropped our things off at the room (there may have been a lot of 25 yard skirt purchasing going on) and had a delicious dinner and hurried back for the last couple hours of the show. More amazing dance, topped off by an awesome closing set by Rachel Brice and her troupe Datura. Such skill! Such beautiful costumes!

Saturday: Got up early and started putting on my face for my performance. Possibly the most makeup I have ever worn! To create the faerie image I was going for I had to apply foundation with a damp sponge, which blotted out the freckles I’ve had for my entire life, making me look very much not like myself. Then there was the epic amount of dark blush. The outrageous eyebrows. The PaperSelf lashes in the shape of stags with butterflies on their antlers. The shimmery earthtone eyeshadow. Niffer provided a helpful second opinion, telling me when to add more and when to stop. Then we hopped into her rental Mustang convertible (hell yeah!) to drive over to TF so I wouldn’t sweat my face off on the walk over.

After watching more inspiring and intimidating dance, I went over to Brandie’s booth to have her do my hair. My original plan was to do it myself and then ask her to give it a looksee and throw in my bobby pins if needed, but I’m glad I just had her do the whole thing because she built this amazing style that really put forth the woodland creature image I wanted, like some sort of Greco-Roman nymph with my flowing curly dreads. Oh yeah, and she pinned the heck out of everything so not a single flower flew off and not a single piece of fake hair got in my face after a spin.

Backstage was crowded but also a great atmosphere, with people taking time to compliment each other on their costumes, give encouragement and hugs and ask when you were going on stage so they could try to catch you before or after their own performance. There was a stage manager to keep everything running smoothly. Before I knew it I was dressed and ready to go on stage and then my music was starting and it was time to give it my all! I was a little nervous but the troupe directly after me was super sweet and blowing me kisses and wishing me luck before I stepped on stage. So lovely!

I feel pretty happy with what I did. For the rest of the weekend, other dancers would walk up to me and compliment me on my dance, including a huge compliment from a really big deal dancer that I still can’t believe really happened. People enjoyed my theme and how well my costume, music and movement went together, which is what I always strive for. I am feeling so inspired and encouraged to live up to what others think of me after my performance. You can watch it here if you’d like.

With that done I was able to watch more dance, have some yummy tea and dinner with Niffer and come back for still more dance, this time with Fat Chance Belly Dance and other awesome ATS troupes wrapping up the night.

Sunday: No workshops! No performances! Time to just relax and have fun. A tiny bit of “Ok, it’s the last day, I’ll kick myself if I don’t buy this” shopping, including finding the perfect belt for my troupemate Ashley who had specifically requested that I keep an eye out for a tribal belt for her. Then lots more watching of dancers, a little break to explore Sebastopol and eat some food, a fond farewell to Niffer, back to the show to give good-bye hugs to my vendor friends, and then the last of the show where Beatbox Guitar performed live music for ITS dancers including Black Sheep Belly Dance and Tribal Fest host Kajira, and then House of Tarot did an almost hour-long final act. WOW! It really is worth staying for the end of Sunday if you don’t absolutely have to get back to work Monday morning.

Then I had to go back to my room and pack up all of my stuff. Uh oh! It seriously looked like a belly dancer had exploded in there. And in my excitement about being able to drive and buy whatever I wanted, I forgot that it might still be a good idea to bring an extra suitcase to consolidate everything instead of having half a dozen shopping bags of various sizes. Oh well. I made it work, even if it took several trips to get everything into the car.

Monday and Tuesday: The long drive home! First I stopped to pick up some yummy local food and drink to take to my aunt and uncle who were going to host me for the night and for my husband back home. Then I stopped in Cotati to visit my friends at Out on a Whim and buy some beads. Then, other than a quick stop to fill up my gas tank, I drove straight through to Redlands. My route back was different from my route up and this time I passed within 3 miles of my hometown and drove the way we always took to visit my family down in Redlands. Such a weird feeling! Some things were unrecognizable and some were still the same, like the Charlie Brown Farms, and the little cafe by where we would turn off to go camping.

I had a nice overnight visit with my aunt and uncle and their lovely pets. I haven’t really spent any time with them as an adult so it was nice to get to know each other. And hanging out with family was much more pleasant than being in some weird hotel by myself. Especially when my aunt and I were watching TV together and her dog had his big ol’ head in my lap. So relaxing!

Tuesday I hit the road, got to Phoenix right on schedule to give Jen her bag o’ skirts and wine, have a little catch up, and then HOME! I don’t know who was happier to see me, my husband or my pets. The corgis tried to follow us out to the car when we left for dinner, surely convinced that I was going to disappear for a week again and they were going to go with me this time. Topher slept curled up next to my belly all night. And while Lira seemed more interested in the pile of bags I brought with me, she did just sit in my lap while I was writing this blog post.

It’s nice to be back home, and I’m looking forward to dancing with my troupemates tonight… but GEEZ do I miss Tribal Fest! So many wonderful friends, so much dancing, so much encouragement, so much shopping. Oh, and the weather! Sure, it was hot the first few days, but Saturday and Sunday were so beautiful I could cry. I loved being able to walk everywhere. Main Street Sebastopol was so cute, full of local shops and restaurants that made me wish I wasn’t spending all my time and money at the festival. I can’t wait to go back next year!

TF14 Day 1 – 90 degrees of awesome

1400128815427So today I actually went to Tribal Fest instead of just being in the general vicinity of the event. My day was a wonderful mix of seeing friends, shopping, dancing for 4 hours and getting dehydrated because it was 90 freakin’ degrees here.

Let’s talk workshops first, since getting educated should technically be my main reason for being here. Today I had “Make it mean something” with Rose Harden and “A step in the right direction” with Alexis Southall.

I had an exellent time in both workshops. Rose Harden talked a lot about working with intention and using things like your breath and gaze to bring another level to your dance. I’m oversimplifying due to intense tiredness, so just trust me that it was awesome. And Alexis Southall worked my bod and my brain with crazy combinations of footwork and layering. I signed up for that workshop because footwork is a real weakness of mine and I think I got some good stuff from it.

Next: friends! I saw lots and lots of them today and I am not going to try to list them all because I know I would forget someone. But it was great to get hugs and catch up and hang out in booths, and I know there will just be even more of that as the week progresses and more people get to town.

Lastly: shopping! I somehow managed not to blow my budget all in one day, probably because of the heat and the fact that I was in workshops for most of the day. I did get the fabulous Taureg necklace in the picture above. That style is the first necklace a young lady gets and she adds more all her life, so it seemed fitting as my first purchase. I love the style and the versatile black and silver coloring will let me wear it with lots of costumes. I might even wear it with a cute dress for dinner dates :)

I also got a fabulous new super bootie skirt and guess what? It’s not green! It’s also a size smaller than I thought I was supposed to wear. Oops!

Oh yes, and 90 degree heat. Since leaving the festival 4 hours ago I have had 3 glasses of iced tea, several glasses of water and I’m now drinking a bottle of water because I am still thirsty! I’m glad the forecast calls for lower temps for the rest of the week because if I wanted 90 degrees I would have stayed home!

Day 21 Check In

My activity log!

My activity log!

Here we are, 3ish weeks into the 90 day challenge. How’s it going? Well, you can see I’m getting a little better. I had a nice almost hour and a half of practice today thanks to checking out the new zil video from Rachel Brice over on Datura Online. I really enjoyed it! I’ll need to revisit it, as I found some of the combinations challenging and my zils really, really need work. First, I need to tighten the elastic on them. I started out with my big silver zils, which were too tight and too loud (hard to know if you’re playing right when you can’t hear the teacher over your own zils!) so I switched to my old brass ones which have a much more reasonable volume, but the elastic is completely shot. Oh the joy of living in a dry climate!

You’ll frequently see +stretches at the end of my time tracking, because I’ve been working hard to get daily stretching back in my routine. I’ve gotten some good advice on what I should be working on to correct some of the things in my body that were impacting my dance ability. Unfortunately, since a lot of it is leg-based, my healing excision site has interfered with some of it, but I’m doing what I can when I can, and as I heal I can add more and more back into my routine. I had a really good on-line stretching session with my friend Jen yesterday. We keep each other accountable! I’m hopeful that we can go back to our weekly Wednesday Skype dates, and I’ll definitely feel more motivated to stretch between dates if I know my accountability buddy is going to ask me about my progress!

I’ve also decided that on days when I get busy and only have a few minutes to practice, I need to make myself do something challenging. So on Monday I drilled hips on the down (not my strong suit) and on Tuesday I did chaine turns coming out of and landing in a deep plie in 2nd, which I suck at. A lot. I almost never practice that sort of thing at home, so when it comes up in a class situation I tend to do very poorly with it. I think those deep plies will be the next big challenge I obsess over until I can get it right. Since a lot of my trouble with them comes from the same issues I’m addressing with my stretch regimen, it will be a really good way to track my progress with that, too.

And that is way too much detail about what I have been working on for the past week!